what to do

[parentof2]

This seems to be the most active board so Ill post here. 

I have two kids.  I am originally from georgia.  I have a child in nc from a previous marriage but I have  not seen the child in over 4 years.  I had another child in 2007 in md by a woman I was dating and we broke up before the child was born.  The mother filed for custody and visitation and I didnt get to see my child until the court ordered visitation.  The judge got the impression that I had deserted my child on the basis I requested a DNA, but I admitted in court he is mine.  The judge also got disapppointed becasue I wasnt working at the time because I was a full time student.  The mother has been very difficult.  To date, she has followed the temp order but does not allow me any time other than the EOW 6-6pm schedule.  I recently called the police when she didnt answer the door when I came for pickup.  But she was outside when the police arrived and just handed me the child and left.  She recently emailed and asked to meet at a school and also to not bring anyone during the exchange.  I dont think that is fair. I can meet at the school, but I should be able to bring who I want when I show.  She has said she willnot hand me child if someone is there.   I am prepared to call the police if this happens.  Since she is being so difficult during a temp order.  I know courts vary by state and county, but what are my chances for full custody at the next hearing?

[hadenough40]

i just posted on the other board