well this is partially my own dumb fault but i feel i am being punished for something, and i did not do anything wrong.
2000 my former wife asks me to adopt her son because his biological father wanted nothing to do with him, so in good faith i did so.... 9 months later she leaves me for another man.
we went trough the divorce thing and she did not want both children, actually her man did not like our daughter,so she was placed in my custody. i paid support she did not because of income issues, like a dummy i agreed to this
so now we move back to missouri (2001) we both had income problems so she said lets not worry about support,we each have a child to raise and neither one of us can afford support,so we sighned an agreement at family services which i thought would give us both protection on this,NOT! ( trap armed!)
later on she decides oh yeah now i want support,which was based on my income in texas, plus all arrears ( imagine that?) hmm (trap sprung!), so it became very difficult for me to support our daughter so she wanted to move in with mom and her 4th or 5th new boyfriend, later on i decided i could no longer afford an apartment so i took a room for board (300./mo.) o-k here comes the juicy part our daughter and new boyfriend ( who by the way was an ex husband of mom's years back) do not get along fight occurs daughter reports to child abuse he beat her up, childrens services contact me and were going to place her back with me but hmm not the proper living arrangement, i explained i cannot afford an apartment so she is placed in a kinship program,( which by the way are folks she already knew because of school, which she is doing really well there.) now she reveals that she stretched the truth about the abuse. well the state of missouri decides support is to be paid to the kinship parents, that was fine i could afford half of it, state said nope you pay it all, mom is disabled (BS, she is well enough to go out and party ,go to the bahamas, etc. but she cannot work any type of job hmm?) so now i am in a desparate situation i will probably soon be homeless, unemployed,and alone because both kids have been told i am a dead beat dad, i have been looking for a part time job to compensate for the additional money but i am 53, bad credit now,not to mention a dead beat dad
, so no luck so far, i am just about to the giving up point,ya know.
well thats a breif summary of my saga, i guess what happens,happens, i guess they cannot do anymore to me when the inevitable probably happens, i am tired of being hungry,sick,lonely,feeling pretty stupid, etc.
maybe something good will come along my way HMM?.
