Help with State of Pennsylvania

[Razzle67]

I have a greedy vindictive ex wife who takes me to court every time she gets a whim.  Now she's trying to get more money from me and she lives in this little town in PA, where in the county they have ONE domestic relations judge that everyone seems to be terrified of because he always sides for the mothers.  I have joint custody. I have alway paid my child support.

This woman had alienated my children from me, now i have her stupid boyfriend emailing me sticking his nose in the custody issues, etc. It's just a never ending nightmare. She told me she deserves as much money as she can get because I owe it to her.  The courts awarded her over $1500.00 a month for two children where she lives at $1000.00 a month is more than enough.  Of course because I make more money I get the shaft. 

Anyway, I'd like to find out if anyone can tell me:

Can I supena her financial records? 
Can I make it where her boyfriend has to move out?  This is the second one she's been engaged too and then broke it off
Can I request a change of venue to another county?

I am getting ready to bust her on some of the custody issues as well but finding an attorney in Clearfield county that is not either money grubbing or terrified of this judge is going to be hard.

I desperately need help, this is taking a toll on my mental and physical health and my marriage. 

[hadenough40]

Jimmy, Razzle mentioned something about the boyfriend getting involved in custody issues and e-mailing him.  While I agree with what you said about making the boyfriend move out, is there anything Razzle can do about the boyfriend getting involved in "parental" issues?

My first thought when he mentioned the e-mailing was something towards the tune of harassment, but not knowing what the e-mails were about, I don't know if that applies.  I would think he should be able to fight the boyfriend for involving himself in this.  Any thoughts?

[hadenough40]

Very clear, thanks jimmy. 

It is amazing though...imagine if I (as the lowly wife of an NCP) contacted the CP for ANY reason whatsoever....OMG...the apocolypse (sp?) comes to mind...LOL

[hadenough40]

Jimmy, I just mentioned recently that I've been on myspace a total of about 3 times.  One of those times was to check out your site.  The home page was pretty interesting but I must still be old school or something...

MySpace is not a site I have been able to figure out due in part to my lack of trying.  I think when i actually log onto a page, all the info confuses me...that's the best i can come up with...lol.  I don't know why and I really can't explain it, but I do not like MySpace and I usually avoid it...LOL

MySpace seems to be "big" so maybe one of these days I'll overcome whatever it is that holds me back...LOL

Thanks for the invite.