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« on: May 12, 2008, 07:38:34 pm GMT+5 » |
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I have a greedy vindictive ex wife who takes me to court every time she gets a whim. Now she's trying to get more money from me and she lives in this little town in PA, where in the county they have ONE domestic relations judge that everyone seems to be terrified of because he always sides for the mothers. I have joint custody. I have alway paid my child support.
This woman had alienated my children from me, now i have her stupid boyfriend emailing me sticking his nose in the custody issues, etc. It's just a never ending nightmare. She told me she deserves as much money as she can get because I owe it to her. The courts awarded her over $1500.00 a month for two children where she lives at $1000.00 a month is more than enough. Of course because I make more money I get the shaft.
Anyway, I'd like to find out if anyone can tell me:
Can I supena her financial records?
Can I make it where her boyfriend has to move out? This is the second one she's been engaged too and then broke it off
Can I request a change of venue to another county?
I am getting ready to bust her on some of the custody issues as well but finding an attorney in Clearfield county that is not either money grubbing or terrified of this judge is going to be hard.
I desperately need help, this is taking a toll on my mental and physical health and my marriage.
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« Reply #1 on: May 12, 2008, 07:52:52 pm GMT+5 » |
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yes you can subpoena her records, the financial ones. they should of made her provide these during the child support portion of the divorce. as far as making the boyfriend move out, ummmm, no. you cannot make her change her lifestyle. the only way this would have anything to do with the current case, is if you prove that the boyfriend is abusing the kids, mentally or physically. otherwise in most states, the current relationship has absolutely nothing to do with the current. now as far as a change in venue, sure you could, but please do not be naive to the fact that these judges do not talk. also, i believe that in most states and counties, they ask you if you have been a resident of that county for a year. i do wish you the best of luck, and stand strong my friend and i would ask that you join me at myspace.com/mddadsdeserverights
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hadenough40
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« Reply #2 on: May 13, 2008, 07:45:32 am GMT+5 » |
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Jimmy, Razzle mentioned something about the boyfriend getting involved in custody issues and e-mailing him. While I agree with what you said about making the boyfriend move out, is there anything Razzle can do about the boyfriend getting involved in "parental" issues?
My first thought when he mentioned the e-mailing was something towards the tune of harassment, but not knowing what the e-mails were about, I don't know if that applies. I would think he should be able to fight the boyfriend for involving himself in this. Any thoughts?
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« Reply #3 on: May 13, 2008, 08:34:04 am GMT+5 » |
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hadenough40,
ok, let me clarify. it is not illegal for the current boyfriend to be involved, nor send any emails. now the problem lies with if the emails are threatning?, did i spell that right? or if he is doing something to the kids, ie abuse,mental or physical. what he needs to do is to keep all emails from him or simply ask him to stop. if he does not comply, legal issues arise. or a simple "block user" can be put on him. why bother with the boyfriend, he has nothing to do with it. we need a little more info to help this gentleman. i hope this clarifies my position and that this helps.
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« Reply #4 on: May 13, 2008, 09:28:06 am GMT+5 » |
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Very clear, thanks jimmy.
It is amazing though...imagine if I (as the lowly wife of an NCP) contacted the CP for ANY reason whatsoever....OMG...the apocolypse (sp?) comes to mind...LOL
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« Reply #5 on: May 13, 2008, 10:52:11 am GMT+5 » |
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did you ever join my myspace page? if not, i invite you to. myspace.com/mddadsdeserverights
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« Reply #6 on: May 13, 2008, 03:03:58 pm GMT+5 » |
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Jimmy, I just mentioned recently that I've been on myspace a total of about 3 times. One of those times was to check out your site. The home page was pretty interesting but I must still be old school or something...
MySpace is not a site I have been able to figure out due in part to my lack of trying. I think when i actually log onto a page, all the info confuses me...that's the best i can come up with...lol. I don't know why and I really can't explain it, but I do not like MySpace and I usually avoid it...LOL
MySpace seems to be "big" so maybe one of these days I'll overcome whatever it is that holds me back...LOL
Thanks for the invite.
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