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  1. modad says:

    I am a noncustodial parent that lives in Missouri. My daughter who is 19 and in college is now living on her own. Am I required to continue with child support payments?

  2. ANCPR says:

    Depends on the order. In some states, they even start charging you for college expenses, in addition to the child support. We have a lot on this subject available in the members only section of the website, as well as in the Handbook.
    LAJ, ANCPR http://ancpr.com/membership.html

  3. Unknown dad says:

    Do college expenses get tallied as arrears? And could that trigger the USC 42-666?

  4. ANCPR says:

    To the question of arrears and college expenses. All this depends on what actually is in the original order, or if it were modified, that modified order. If the order states that college expenses are to be paid, and they aren’t, then those would go to arrears just like child support that isn’t paid.

  5. Life79924 says:

    Thank you for the reply. I called the AG on 2 separate occasions. I got 2 different answers. The 1st answer was exactly like yours. The 2nd was opposite I was told everything was on hold pending the outcome of the divorice, they were not stepping in. That is what prompted my post. I have extended visitation and feel I have a home to up keep for my child just like she does. If she needs money so bad then he should live with me.

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  9. einatbauman says:

    Dear friends. I was unjustly separated from my children (Rebecca and Jacob) over a year ago based on false allegations by the father. Help me to reunite with my children by signing on their petition today. Ask your friends and family by phone, Facebook, and email to sign. The next hearing is this Thursday, and I hope to get many signatures by then.
    http://www.change.org/petitions/reunite-jacob-rebecca-with-their-mother-today

  10. Jeff Hager says:

    Is the class acttion lawsuit still going on & where can I sign up at ????

  11. DadInOregon says:

    I have a feeling I’m posting this in the wrong place, but here goes…

    I’m a non-custodial father in Oregon. I am paying child support in addition to “cash medical support” of ($215 per month for medical), as the mother and her husband have asked to provide insurance on their own. Fine.

    I just learned that the amount they are paying for medical insurance for *the entire family* (that’s the adult couple, a child they have together, and my two children), is just a hair over the amount that I pay specifically for my children — their total insurance premium is only $222 per month. So this means they are taking the money I send them for my kids, and using it for themselves.

    They seem to think this is OK. Needless to say, I do not.

    This has become an issue because one of the children had to visit the ER recently, and the total bill due is almost $3,000 — and I’m expected to pay half of it.

    I think it’s obvious that if they were actually using what I sent for insurance on the children to pay for insurance for the children, then the ER bill would be substantially lower. They are underinsuring the kids.

    So my question is — are they REQUIRED to use the “cash medical support” funds for insurance, or at least for medical expenses, or are they free to do whatever they want with the money?

    Thank you,
    DadInOregon

  12. LAJ says:

    Technically, they are supposed to use it for only the insurance payment. But few courts would bother to enforce this. However, you could file an action in court to lower the amount to the child’s share only.

  13. jordon says:

    I have received an order in the mail to update my job info hours and how much I make. And it says i must turn this in in 20 days. What will happen if I just don’t return it. It says they’ll take the mothers info that she provided but I just can’t see how they can do that.

  14. jordon says:

    oops wrong area

  15. JimB says:

    yep, they’ll use the mother’s provided statements/information about your salary/income.

    and when they determine HER income? same method, they’ll take her word for it. irregardless of how big of a liar she is.

    in my case, $1k/mo plus medical for a child that wasnt mine even though she SWORE to high heaven it was.

    thank you DNA test! should be mandatory!!

  16. artistin says:

    i am facing charges for felony nonsupport of child i know was the court never followed child support guidelines never verifyed my income the went off the fact that my ex husband believed that I made 200 dollars a week when in fact i only made about 29 dollars the year the divorce was filed and settled (1989)I was a full time student at the time and was paying my child support with my student loan. my child support was set at 65 dollars a week in 1989 the 5 years before my divorce I did not have an income.
    > according to the court in
    > 1989 i should have paid $715 i made $29 that year
    > 1990 i should have paid $3380 i made $3164 that year
    > 1991 i should have paid $3380 i made $3859 that year ( i was charged twice for 1991)
    > 1992 i should have paid ( not charged for that year) i made $6778
    > 1993 i should have paid $3445 I made $6571 that year
    > 1994 i should have paid $3380 i made $5367 that year
    > 1995 i should have paid $3380 i made $3691 that year
    > 1996 i should have paid $3380 i made $6575 that year
    > 1997 i should have paid $3380 i made $443 that year
    > 1998 i should have paid $3380 i made $9203 that year
    > 1999 i should have paid $3445 I made $13874 that year
    > 2000 i should have paid $3380 i made $14832 that year
    > 2001 i should have paid $3380 i made $465 that year (unemployment)(husband was laid off mine closed)
    > 2002 i should have paid $3380 i was unemployed
    > (husband was laid off)
    > 2003 i should have paid $3380 i was unemployed
    > (husband was laid off)
    > (filed bankruptcy) (husband’s house was foreclosed)
    > 2004 i should have paid $3445 i was unemployed
    > (moved husband found job)
    > 2005 i should have paid $3380 i was unemployed
    > (had child with speech problems)
    > 2006 i should have paid $3380 i was unemployed
    > (child with speech problems)(the child for this child support was order married in july and had moved to washington)
    > 2007 i should have paid $1300 i was unemployed
    > (child with speech problems)(child was still married and living in washington)
    > in 2002 the indiana office of the prosecuting attorney sent me a letter saying it would file a contempt of court action they also sent a form asking me what my income was I called them and filed out the form about my income it also stated that they may modify my child support which i ask them to do, they never contacted me further.
    > in 2008 i recived a letter from the steuben co iv-d prosecutor saying i owed $59,735.00 it also stated i could ask for an administrave hearing i wrote them and requested a hearing and documentation showing why i was behind in my child support,but never got any reply back. they also intercepted tax return for that year in the amount of $2257(but only listed the amount being $1128.50 half of the amount was missing)
    > in 2009 i again got the same letter the amount owing $59,735.00 was still owing it did not show the payment of $2257 i again wrote them and again did not get a reply my husband also wrote them and they replied to his letter and they intercepted $575.78 for that tax year and 669.37 for the tax year of 2010
    > in 2011 i was arrested in the state of washington on a warrent that had been issued in 2004 the probale cause affidavit states (that the accused has never paid and the arrearage to this date is in excess of $48,100.00. it also states the natural mother and child all reside in steuben county (i have never lived in any part of indiana)this was signed by my ex-husband swore upon his oath to this .
    > he also swore on a paper titled information for nonsupport of dependent children class c felony between the dates of 2-01-1999 and 12-31-2003 in the county of steubn and the state of indiana ,one steven —-did then and there knowingly and intentionally fail to provide support for his /her child(ren—and that the arrearage is in excess of $48,100.00
    > on amended information for non support of dependent children filed june 2011 —advised of the penalities for perjury affirms that between the dates of 02-01-1999 and 12-31-03 in the county of steuben and the state of indiana one — did then and there knowingly and intentionally fall to provide for her child and the arrearage is in excess of $48,100.00
    > on an affidavit for nonsupport extradition —-sworn upon his oath said
    > 1-that efforts have been made to enforce this order through means which have proved to be futile
    > 2-failures of attempts to secure support payments from the defendant through various civil means of which the defendant has failed to comply with
    > —also stated and swore upon his oath on a paper titled application for requisition for defendant not present in indiana during commission of crime
    > 1-the defendant committed acts in the state of washington intentionally resulting in the crime in the state of indiana
    > 2- the facts stated in the attached information and affidavit are true and correct
    > 3- the requisition of the defendant is not sought for the purpose of collecting a debt or enforcing a civil remedy
    >
    > my answers to the above
    > probable cause affidavit
    > 1- i have never lived in indiana
    > 2- i did pay some of my child support even before i was ever ordered to and did nt owe $48,100.00(i have proved this in court already )and have recipts and checks to prove so
    > 3- i do not or have never resided in indiana
    >
    > information for nonsupport of dependent children
    > 1- my name is not steven —-
    > 2- i did not knowingly and intentionally fail to provide support , orignally child support was set higher than i could pay this caused the arrearage
    > 3-i did not owe 448,100.00 as was stated above
    >
    > amended information for nonsupport of dependent children
    > 1-i did not knowingly and intentionally fail to provide for child (see above)
    > 2- did not owe $48,100.00 (see above)
    >
    > affidavit for nonsupport extradition
    > 1-i have ask for a hearing as to work this out i have filled out paper work to modify child support and when i did these things i never got any responce back
    > 2- the only civil means that i am aware of was when they intercepted taxes
    >
    > application for requisition for defendant not present in indiana
    > 1- i was not living in washington between 1999 and 2003 i moved to washington in 2004
    > 2- the facts on information and affidavit are not correct and true (see above)
    > 3- husband called mr hess and was told if we paid 58,000.00 he would drop the charges
    >
    >
    > i was extradited to indiana in aug 2011 during my extradition i was left in alabama for 3 weeks after spending almost a month waiting to be extradited in jail in washington when i finally arrived in indiana i was given a plea bargain agreement i did not sign it this was in sept at which time i ask for a speedy trial and was granted one i sat in jail until feb 2012 when the judge let me out on my own reconince i have been back to indiana twice since then on this matter the trial date is now set for oct
    > i can prove beyond s doubt my ex-husband has lied on varoius occasions relating to this case
    > in 2003 he stated on a child supper obligation worksheet for another ex-wife that he had no prior order for child support (mine) he ststed i never paid any child support and owed over $48.100.00
    > i have reciepts that have proved i did he stated i made $200 a week when i had only made $29 the whole year
    > i have never refused or intentionally failed to pay child support i have tried to settle this problem several times and work with the state of indiana my arrearage would not be this high if my child support had been an amount i could have paid.
    > i am sorry i didn’t have the monies to pay and sorry i am not rich but i m not guilty of this crime and have documentation to support what i have stated here i did try to get the mistakes fixed over the course of history but nobody wanted to listen also i was told several times that there were no guidelines at that time i my self only found out last year that there were laws governing child support and that they went into effect 10 days before my divorce was final my last lawyer himself told me there were no guidelines in aug of this year after which i showed him the guidelines and the date they went into effect . so shame on me for not knowing laws in a state that i never lived in, believing what people who should have (known the laws ) but didn’t told me and for having no money to hire an attorney

  17. concerned says:

    I am a noncustodial parent who ex is currently in jail. I retrieved my son when I found out. Custody has never been established in court. Should I inform DFS that she is in jail?

  18. CaliNCP says:

    I have a petition for rule to show cause for being behind on child support even though my daughters are 23 and 26
    I have a court date this month in Illinois
    I live in California
    Am I better off not going to court in Illinois
    what are the chances of being extradited to Illinois if I dont show up at court? I cant afford to travel to Illinois
    I already asked for a telephone hearing and was told no

  19. knppmnt says:

    I live in florida my daughter lives in iowa with her mother.The state of iowa is trying to get more child support from me. i barely make enough to support me and my present wife who is unemployed. I have had 3 weeks visitation in 16 years. I can not afford an attorney what can i do?

  20. viking micah says:

    I am a father who is about to go to trial for my
    son.my ex is a dog killer and the judge still doesn’t care wtf is wrong with the courts.

  21. Almof9 says:

    I see a lot of issues, but I do not see any advise or help for these fathers who are being abused by the x’s and current support laws, where do we go for help when we cant afford attorney because we are paying to much in support

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