Just saw this comment by a reader at Mens News Daily. I agree:
Is there any wonder why there is a silent “marriage strike” going on the US? I propose legislation that every marriage license have on it the following statements:
If you are a man and intend to marry, this is what can befall you if you divorce:
1. Loss of all assets, income, pensions, and probably career.
2. Loss of relationship with your children (if any) to the point they are alienated and will probably never see you again because mom wants to raise them her way, or get re-married and give the children a new daddy!
3. If you are falsely accused of domestic violence, which is a well-known tactic in divorce, it will be an automatic divorce essentially, where the female will win custody of the children, all the money in the form of child support and alimony (if married more than 5-7 years), all the assets and the divorce. If you don’t prevail against the false allegations of domestic violence, you will branded as a “wife beater”, an “angry, disgruntled man/father”, a “deadbeat”, an “outlaw”. You may also run the risk of being falsely accused of child abuse or child sexual abuse–a usual tactic by women (with the support and acknowledgement of radical women’s groups) and their lawyers. This accusation is like having the “A” stamped on your forehead. You will never be able to overcome the whispers of being a possible “child abuser” or “child molester”. This will follow you wherever you go. If your employer finds out about it , it will cost you your job.
4. You will find yourself impoverished by the corrupt lawyers, anti-male, gender biased judges and gov’t, to the point that you will be forced to live in your parent’s basement, a friend’s basement, or even your car. You will be lucky if you’re able to afford an apartment when the divorce process is completed.
5. You will start to suffer signs of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), like a combat veteran who has seen to much action and death in war, because of the financial and emotional pounding you will receive from the Marxist Courts, your ex and her complicit attorneys. You will not be able to sleep, you will have nightmares if you do, you will be subjected to cold sweats, panic attacks, shortness of breath, etc. Some men will become alcoholics or drug abusers because they can no longer withstand the constant emotional & financial strain from the anti-male, gender-biased courts and government.
6. You will suffer this emotional and financial pain for anywhere between 10-20 years (a generation) depending on how old your children are, or if you have to pay excessive alimony.
If you don’t want to believe the above information, which is empirical evidence that can be found all over the internet, then go into your marriage with your eyes wide open and make sure you conceal as many assets (e.g, real estate, personal property, gun collections, collectible coins, stocks, bonds, other financial assets, etc.) as you can, and keep all real estate in your name only! Try not to put the other spouse on the deed of the house, especially if you had the real estate (and other real estate investments) prior to entering the marriage. Otherwise, you can lose it all in the divorce, either by transfer of property, or by forcing the sale to pay for excessive child support and/or alimony.
7. Pre-nuptial agreements DO NOT WORK in the family courts! So don’t bother to have one. Make sure if you have real estate before the marriage stay in your name, or put it in a trusted family member’s name, put it into private trust, or set up a corporation.