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	<title>Comments on: Bill addresses theory used in custody cases &#8211; Parental Alienation</title>
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		<title>By: Nila Fordyce</title>
		<link>http://ancpr.com/2008/03/10/bill-addresses-theory-used-in-custody-cases-parental-alienation/#comment-198580</link>
		<dc:creator>Nila Fordyce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Aug 2011 17:26:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am truly sorry for your issues--I hope they can be worked out for you. The only thing we can do is to continue to hound the legislatures and any other associations you can think of to file complaint after complaint. If they would pass a mandatory Shared Parenting bill this would aleviate alot of the problems--this would make the family legal system more fair and shut up the very selfish mothers out there. And do away with all the bad so-called professionals out there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am truly sorry for your issues&#8211;I hope they can be worked out for you. The only thing we can do is to continue to hound the legislatures and any other associations you can think of to file complaint after complaint. If they would pass a mandatory Shared Parenting bill this would aleviate alot of the problems&#8211;this would make the family legal system more fair and shut up the very selfish mothers out there. And do away with all the bad so-called professionals out there.</p>
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		<title>By: jerome</title>
		<link>http://ancpr.com/2008/03/10/bill-addresses-theory-used-in-custody-cases-parental-alienation/#comment-62882</link>
		<dc:creator>jerome</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Mar 2011 19:02:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been alienatd in the past 6yrs. and the effects that I, NO expert...have notice is beyond  horrific,I hope and pray there is some form of support giving to those who seek the help to close the gap,and eracticate that type of separation syndome,,in the near future,,</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been alienatd in the past 6yrs. and the effects that I, NO expert&#8230;have notice is beyond  horrific,I hope and pray there is some form of support giving to those who seek the help to close the gap,and eracticate that type of separation syndome,,in the near future,,</p>
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		<title>By: Nila Fordyce</title>
		<link>http://ancpr.com/2008/03/10/bill-addresses-theory-used-in-custody-cases-parental-alienation/#comment-62179</link>
		<dc:creator>Nila Fordyce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2011 23:25:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I did forget to mention, one very important topic. PAS, is alive and well in our country. I have heard and no alot of horror stories. 65% or more of women that get custody of their children alienate the father from the children. Then of course, the good parent loses his child even more. There is an epedemic going on in the Family Law System of drastic porportions of Gender Biases. Where is your equal Justice for All. Not..............!

Truth be known, they should elimnate evaluators - ther Con Artist from day one.

Nila</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I did forget to mention, one very important topic. PAS, is alive and well in our country. I have heard and no alot of horror stories. 65% or more of women that get custody of their children alienate the father from the children. Then of course, the good parent loses his child even more. There is an epedemic going on in the Family Law System of drastic porportions of Gender Biases. Where is your equal Justice for All. Not&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..!</p>
<p>Truth be known, they should elimnate evaluators &#8211; ther Con Artist from day one.</p>
<p>Nila</p>
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		<title>By: Nila Fordyce</title>
		<link>http://ancpr.com/2008/03/10/bill-addresses-theory-used-in-custody-cases-parental-alienation/#comment-62175</link>
		<dc:creator>Nila Fordyce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2011 23:15:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The Family Legal System in the State of Ca. is truly broken and is in desparate need of an overhaul. It is not only the laws that are egregious to the children and their parents, it is the so called experts we have that implement these laws. And these people are the attorneys, evaluators (whatever their background is or title)and unfortunately the judges. The laws and the so called experts are corrupt, biased, greedy, and not educated or had enough experiences in the field. And it obviously, seems to me and thousands of other people they have no strong family value system. What is the best interest of the children here people. Close, Consistant and Frequent Contact with both parents after divorce! Children only thrive in their lives with both parents involved in their lives. Your move-away cases are horrific. Parents are in a knife fight here. Neither parent wants to lose their child if they are a good strong parent. But the bad evaluators recommend it, and the judges go for it. They are fracturing the lives of children and the parent left behind. Relizing they all have to make their yacht payments. You don&#039;t allow one parent to take the child thousands of miles away from the other just because they think they will like anoher city or they were having an affair and want to move to their lovers. You odds on that working out are. And I hate to start a holy war, but it is usually the poor fathers that lose their kids. I am a 62 year old woman and most fathers are good fathers. And do the best they can with what they have to work with. And they system just assumes that all Dads are deadbeats and that is just far from the truth!!! Just because a mother is a mother does not mean she is the better parent. I worshipped my father growing up, he was my hero and still is at 87. He taught me alot. He taught me honesty, morals and not to judge people harshly. Actually, I had a better relationship with my father than my mother. She was to busy with her Junior League, arts and golf. But I loved her. Abuse is horrific and they should be punished severely, don&#039;t punish good decent parents. This is insidious.
Get rid of all your bad so called experts - there&#039;s dozens and dozens.
One example, I witnessed an evaluator perjury himself in the courtroom and the judge was so..........biased and stupid he bought it. My father, a retired Doctor, told me many years ago that just because someone has a big title infront of their name does NOT mean they are good at what they do. And honest!!
Nila</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Family Legal System in the State of Ca. is truly broken and is in desparate need of an overhaul. It is not only the laws that are egregious to the children and their parents, it is the so called experts we have that implement these laws. And these people are the attorneys, evaluators (whatever their background is or title)and unfortunately the judges. The laws and the so called experts are corrupt, biased, greedy, and not educated or had enough experiences in the field. And it obviously, seems to me and thousands of other people they have no strong family value system. What is the best interest of the children here people. Close, Consistant and Frequent Contact with both parents after divorce! Children only thrive in their lives with both parents involved in their lives. Your move-away cases are horrific. Parents are in a knife fight here. Neither parent wants to lose their child if they are a good strong parent. But the bad evaluators recommend it, and the judges go for it. They are fracturing the lives of children and the parent left behind. Relizing they all have to make their yacht payments. You don&#8217;t allow one parent to take the child thousands of miles away from the other just because they think they will like anoher city or they were having an affair and want to move to their lovers. You odds on that working out are. And I hate to start a holy war, but it is usually the poor fathers that lose their kids. I am a 62 year old woman and most fathers are good fathers. And do the best they can with what they have to work with. And they system just assumes that all Dads are deadbeats and that is just far from the truth!!! Just because a mother is a mother does not mean she is the better parent. I worshipped my father growing up, he was my hero and still is at 87. He taught me alot. He taught me honesty, morals and not to judge people harshly. Actually, I had a better relationship with my father than my mother. She was to busy with her Junior League, arts and golf. But I loved her. Abuse is horrific and they should be punished severely, don&#8217;t punish good decent parents. This is insidious.<br />
Get rid of all your bad so called experts &#8211; there&#8217;s dozens and dozens.<br />
One example, I witnessed an evaluator perjury himself in the courtroom and the judge was so&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.biased and stupid he bought it. My father, a retired Doctor, told me many years ago that just because someone has a big title infront of their name does NOT mean they are good at what they do. And honest!!<br />
Nila</p>
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		<title>By: Dhouse</title>
		<link>http://ancpr.com/2008/03/10/bill-addresses-theory-used-in-custody-cases-parental-alienation/#comment-6117</link>
		<dc:creator>Dhouse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 08:33:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The really painful reality for the children here is that the Family Court system rewards any small comments by the children that the &quot;other parent&quot; has been a problem -- whether any facts can be found to corroborate the allegations and the words planted in the little darlings mouths...

Without specifically knowing Dr. Stahl&#039;s background, the joke is that he thinks this law -- if passed -- would have any material impact on the assessment that county judges make on their little evaluation teams: 
for God&#039;s sakes, these people live together professionally. To expect any degree of objectivity -- that would require the judge to go find additional outside information, and attempt to confirm the judgment of his evaluators -- is completely ludicrous and ignorant.

Note that several paragraphs are given to the Cotton case: a serious percentage of fathers would love to have that kind of judge, one that would actually listen to the problems foisted upon the children by a mother. 

I can&#039;t even imagine any of the 7 judges I&#039;ve faced having an iota of consideration along those lines. Their bias and ignorance were perfectly sufficient for their needs -- and the continued abuse of my children...

Anderson and the CPPA are examples of support groups that do a great job of preventing any kind of moderated, mediated, compromised reality for our children: when it&#039;s so easy to invoke VAWA, take 80% of the timeshare and its concomitant dollars, why in the dickens would any woman want to give an inch in favor of their children&#039;s needs to be with their fathers?

So Dr. Baker and Ms. Johnstone see evidence that both parents exhibit significant amounts of alienating behavior: what a surprise... If anyone that mattered were to take standard negotiating practice into account, and evaluate this situation, the obvious evaluation of the available rewards to both parents to polarize children&#039;s attitudes against the other parent leads to an obvious conclusion: we have a system designed to inflame, to perversely encourage one of the very outcomes we all rail against...

Stuck in a system that open declares no interest in due process, corroborating evidence, shared parenting as a good outcome, and amazingly biased evaluators willing to sentence mostly fathers to unlivable situations, why would anyone expect that the conversations with their children would not be Alienating?

The idea that judges are &quot;cautious&quot; about abuse charges is too kind: judges are predominantly politically correct cowards unwilling to go ask anyone to actually collect real facts -- if they had any evaluators with those abilities...
They are rather willing to stumble ahead as if they actually do have the same level of information as their criminal and civil counterparts do for assessing status and providing due process -- while openly denying the need for due process....

And, of course, the notion that the APA&#039;s lack of endorsement for Gardner&#039;s theories matters requires a simple reminder: these idiots came out with some significant support for an amazingly lame analysis indicating that Fathers were no longer necessary for the proper development of children.... So the lack of fathers as models and the 90% correlation to California inmate profiles doesn&#039;t matter....? That&#039;s right: we can put more of our black men in jail than any country in the world -- largely due to the lack of adult, male role models behaving as good citizens...

I&#039;m sure the CPPA has many good answers for all of this: I&#039;m just hoping they get to be honest enough to consider the systemic abuses that their current positions engender and continue.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The really painful reality for the children here is that the Family Court system rewards any small comments by the children that the &#8220;other parent&#8221; has been a problem &#8212; whether any facts can be found to corroborate the allegations and the words planted in the little darlings mouths&#8230;</p>
<p>Without specifically knowing Dr. Stahl&#8217;s background, the joke is that he thinks this law &#8212; if passed &#8212; would have any material impact on the assessment that county judges make on their little evaluation teams:<br />
for God&#8217;s sakes, these people live together professionally. To expect any degree of objectivity &#8212; that would require the judge to go find additional outside information, and attempt to confirm the judgment of his evaluators &#8212; is completely ludicrous and ignorant.</p>
<p>Note that several paragraphs are given to the Cotton case: a serious percentage of fathers would love to have that kind of judge, one that would actually listen to the problems foisted upon the children by a mother. </p>
<p>I can&#8217;t even imagine any of the 7 judges I&#8217;ve faced having an iota of consideration along those lines. Their bias and ignorance were perfectly sufficient for their needs &#8212; and the continued abuse of my children&#8230;</p>
<p>Anderson and the CPPA are examples of support groups that do a great job of preventing any kind of moderated, mediated, compromised reality for our children: when it&#8217;s so easy to invoke VAWA, take 80% of the timeshare and its concomitant dollars, why in the dickens would any woman want to give an inch in favor of their children&#8217;s needs to be with their fathers?</p>
<p>So Dr. Baker and Ms. Johnstone see evidence that both parents exhibit significant amounts of alienating behavior: what a surprise&#8230; If anyone that mattered were to take standard negotiating practice into account, and evaluate this situation, the obvious evaluation of the available rewards to both parents to polarize children&#8217;s attitudes against the other parent leads to an obvious conclusion: we have a system designed to inflame, to perversely encourage one of the very outcomes we all rail against&#8230;</p>
<p>Stuck in a system that open declares no interest in due process, corroborating evidence, shared parenting as a good outcome, and amazingly biased evaluators willing to sentence mostly fathers to unlivable situations, why would anyone expect that the conversations with their children would not be Alienating?</p>
<p>The idea that judges are &#8220;cautious&#8221; about abuse charges is too kind: judges are predominantly politically correct cowards unwilling to go ask anyone to actually collect real facts &#8212; if they had any evaluators with those abilities&#8230;<br />
They are rather willing to stumble ahead as if they actually do have the same level of information as their criminal and civil counterparts do for assessing status and providing due process &#8212; while openly denying the need for due process&#8230;.</p>
<p>And, of course, the notion that the APA&#8217;s lack of endorsement for Gardner&#8217;s theories matters requires a simple reminder: these idiots came out with some significant support for an amazingly lame analysis indicating that Fathers were no longer necessary for the proper development of children&#8230;. So the lack of fathers as models and the 90% correlation to California inmate profiles doesn&#8217;t matter&#8230;.? That&#8217;s right: we can put more of our black men in jail than any country in the world &#8212; largely due to the lack of adult, male role models behaving as good citizens&#8230;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure the CPPA has many good answers for all of this: I&#8217;m just hoping they get to be honest enough to consider the systemic abuses that their current positions engender and continue.</p>
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		<title>By: NYC Family Law Attorney</title>
		<link>http://ancpr.com/2008/03/10/bill-addresses-theory-used-in-custody-cases-parental-alienation/#comment-6116</link>
		<dc:creator>NYC Family Law Attorney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 01:12:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree that often times as attorneys and law guardians we have to strategically decide which approach to take so that we prevail.  This unfortunately means to exclude or downplay some allegations that were not founded or confirmed.  However, when there are allegations of a parent intentionally depriving the other from contact with their children, this is clearly an issue for the court and all players involved, regardless as to whether they choose to characterize it as PAS.  A parent not seeing his/her child is an issue in it of itself, unless there were proven instances of domestic violence, child abuse or drug/alcohol abuse.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree that often times as attorneys and law guardians we have to strategically decide which approach to take so that we prevail.  This unfortunately means to exclude or downplay some allegations that were not founded or confirmed.  However, when there are allegations of a parent intentionally depriving the other from contact with their children, this is clearly an issue for the court and all players involved, regardless as to whether they choose to characterize it as PAS.  A parent not seeing his/her child is an issue in it of itself, unless there were proven instances of domestic violence, child abuse or drug/alcohol abuse.</p>
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