Comments on: What’s best for kids at issue for dads – The Boston Globe http://ancpr.com/2008/02/28/whats-best-for-kids-at-issue-for-dads-the-boston-globe/ Alliance for Non-Custodial Parents Rights Wed, 16 May 2012 22:30:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Hopefull@13 http://ancpr.com/2008/02/28/whats-best-for-kids-at-issue-for-dads-the-boston-globe/#comment-6256 Hopefull@13 Wed, 03 Jun 2009 20:58:04 +0000 http://ancpr.com/blog/2008/02/28/whats-best-for-kids-at-issue-for-dads-the-boston-globe/#comment-6256 I agree! My fiancee was the sole center of his little girls world from birth until almost a year and a half. The mother went back to work after 3 weeks and made no effort to connect with her child. At a year and a half she got caught cheating and took off with their baby. Up until just late last year, he has been required to pay an obsence amoutn in child support and court ordered to only see his daughter every other weekend, however because of mom's party lifestyle he had their daugther on the upwards of 22 days a month, but she still received a check every 2 weeks. Just recently mom decided to become serious with a man she works with after further sleeping with 5 of my fiancee's friends. She has restricted and removed all time that my finacee has had with his daughter and we have been forced to take her back to court where she will not budge on any additional time and wants more child support and her court costs paid. She has changed the childs daycare w/out his consent, moved to Framingham (in with the boyfriend), refuses to allow my finacee Thursdays and Fridays with his daughter when he has those days off work and would prefer that their daughter is in daycare with a 3rd party. And the most ironic part about the whole thing? They share joint legal custody but she makes all decisions on her own w/out his consent! What gives? Why does the system favor mother's and gives nothing to father's? All he wants to do is love his little girl. We filed in January and now have to wait until October to go to trial, just ridiculous! I agree! My fiancee was the sole center of his little girls world from birth until almost a year and a half. The mother went back to work after 3 weeks and made no effort to connect with her child. At a year and a half she got caught cheating and took off with their baby.

Up until just late last year, he has been required to pay an obsence amoutn in child support and court ordered to only see his daughter every other weekend, however because of mom’s party lifestyle he had their daugther on the upwards of 22 days a month, but she still received a check every 2 weeks.

Just recently mom decided to become serious with a man she works with after further sleeping with 5 of my fiancee’s friends. She has restricted and removed all time that my finacee has had with his daughter and we have been forced to take her back to court where she will not budge on any additional time and wants more child support and her court costs paid.

She has changed the childs daycare w/out his consent, moved to Framingham (in with the boyfriend), refuses to allow my finacee Thursdays and Fridays with his daughter when he has those days off work and would prefer that their daughter is in daycare with a 3rd party. And the most ironic part about the whole thing? They share joint legal custody but she makes all decisions on her own w/out his consent!

What gives? Why does the system favor mother’s and gives nothing to father’s? All he wants to do is love his little girl.

We filed in January and now have to wait until October to go to trial, just ridiculous!

]]> By: rharleyldy http://ancpr.com/2008/02/28/whats-best-for-kids-at-issue-for-dads-the-boston-globe/#comment-6165 rharleyldy Tue, 09 Sep 2008 02:36:40 +0000 http://ancpr.com/blog/2008/02/28/whats-best-for-kids-at-issue-for-dads-the-boston-globe/#comment-6165 I have to say that my boyfriend has been fighting for sole legal and physical custody of his children that he has had for the last 22 - 24 months. His case is being handled out of the Cambridge , Ma Probate court. It is pretty bad when not once but twice DSS has called to request him to get his kids from their mother or they would go into DSS custody. It has been documented by Doctors, DSS, and school teachers that the children are flourishing in his care. The courts have told the mother that she must abided by certain things or must complete certain tasks. The sad thing is for a mother who supposedly wants her children back she has not completed a single thing the court has ordered her to do, yet they keep giving her chance after chance. She has learned to play the system, I just think that the courts are bias when it comes to gin=ving father's custody of their children. But isn't funny that if a father doesn't pay support they are either locking them up or garnishing their paycheck. What do you do in a case like this??????? I have to say that my boyfriend has been fighting for sole legal and physical custody of his children that he has had for the last 22 – 24 months.

His case is being handled out of the Cambridge , Ma Probate court. It is pretty bad when not once but twice DSS has called to request him to get his kids from their mother or they would go into DSS custody.

It has been documented by Doctors, DSS, and school teachers that the children are flourishing in his care. The courts have told the mother that she must abided by certain things or must complete certain tasks. The sad thing is for a mother who supposedly wants her children back she has not completed a single thing the court has ordered her to do, yet they keep giving her chance after chance.

She has learned to play the system, I just think that the courts are bias when it comes to gin=ving father’s custody of their children. But isn’t funny that if a father doesn’t pay support they are either locking them up or garnishing their paycheck.

What do you do in a case like this???????

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